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Ep. 264 Belonging vs. Fitting In

Jan 25, 2024

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We all want to feel like we have a place in this world. We want to be accepted and appreciated.

However, the way we do that, really matters.

Many of us may find that we tend to do what we can to fit in. We try to like the shows, the podcasts or songs of our friends to fit in and have something to talk about. Maybe you buy the clothes, say more things or do more things because you're trying to fit in. But how do you feel when you're trying to fit in? Usually it's a graspy heavy place. And it doesn't work long term. Fitting in is a constantly changing thing since it's all based on external things.

Vs.

Belonging. Belonging is being who you are. In fact belonging never asks you to change who you are, it demands you be who you are. Belonging has ease attached to it. It's internal.

So how do we shift from fitting in to belonging? Let's discuss that today on the podcast.  


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